If you're having penetrative sex and you're not getting off, you might be wondering what the heck is wrong. Chances are there's one major problem: You're forgetting about your clit. Eighty percent of people require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm
So, if you're officially convinced to give it a go, these are the best sex positions for women because they focus on clitoral stimulation—and, as a result, may just be the best sex positions for orgasm too. Have fun.
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Missionary
Don't write this off as basic: Missionary might just be one of the best sex positions for women to have an orgasm. Missionary is classic for a reason. General contact is really nice and deep, and you can talk, kiss, bite, and make eye contact. To get that clitoral stimulation, though, the person on the bottom should grind their pelvis against their partner. That will make the position feel even better.
The Butt Lift
For a variation on missionary, put your ankles on your partner's shoulders. That'll lift your butt in the air, and your partner can either grab that or hold your legs. This actually leaves plenty of space for you or your partner to touch your clit or hold a vibrator on it. Because of the way your body is bent, this position exposes the top of the pelvic mound.
Read more Sex-Position Bucket List Should Look Like This Cowgirl
If you're looking to have clitoral stimulation during sex without a toy or without having to get hands involved, cowgirl is the best way to do it. In this position, you're kneeling and straddling your partner, facing them.
To make it one of the best sex positions for orgasm, add lube: With the addition of lube, this position is really good for grinding your pelvis against your partner for clit stimulation, since, otherwise, skin that isn't super hydrated can make friction unpleasant. Also try leaning back and holding on to your partner's legs, or leaning forward to hold on to their shoulders. How far forward or back you lean will change the angle and the different spots you might hit to reach that clit orgasm.
Parting the Sea
This best sex position for women is a variation of reverse cowgirl—and you use your partner's leg as an accessory (fun!). Place a pillow underneath your partner's lower back, and have them bend one knee so their foot is flat on the bed. Then climb on top and straddle them in reverse cowgirl, placing one of your legs in between their and the other on the outside of the leg you're using as the post. Once you're comfortable, slide your partner inside of you and position and ride them while rubbing your clit against his thigh. Yee-haw.
Read more Sex-Position Bucket List Should Look Like This Doggy Style
Just like it sounds, doggy style is where you get on all fours, leaning on your hands or forearms, and your partner enters you from behind. Doggy style gives a tighter fit than facing positions, and it's great for G-spot stimulation. Make one small tweak to make this one of the best sex positions for women for orgasming too: Because your partner is resting against your body, it could potentially free up one or both hands so they could stimulate your clit while holding your body close. Or, balance on one arm so you can free up a hand of your own. (Hello, core workout!)
Edge of the Bed
For deep penetration and clitoral play, try this fun sex position. Lie on your back, hips at the edge of the bed, and have your partner stand and enter you from under your legs. With any penetrative sex positions where you're aiming for clit stimulation, it's helpful to make enough room for a hand or toy to stimulate the clit directly. Any position that has the receptive partner on the edge of the bed with the penetrative partner standing up is great for this.
Read more 5 Sex Positions to Give Her Multiple Orgasms Sideways Straddle
The number-one rule for clit sex is finding friction, and ups that tenfold, making it one of the best sex positions for women trying to have a clit orgasm. Have your partner lie on their back with their knees bent, then lower yourself onto them so you're straddling one of their thighs, facing away from them. You can grind up against their thigh for some great clitoral stimulation.
The Butt Lift
For a variation on missionary, put your ankles on your partner's shoulders. That'll lift your butt in the air, and your partner can either grab that or hold your legs. This actually leaves plenty of space for you or your partner to touch your clit or hold a vibrator on it. Because of the way your body is bent, this position exposes the top of the pelvic mound.
Read more Sex-Position Bucket List Should Look Like This Cowgirl
If you're looking to have clitoral stimulation during sex without a toy or without having to get hands involved, cowgirl is the best way to do it. In this position, you're kneeling and straddling your partner, facing them.
To make it one of the best sex positions for orgasm, add lube: With the addition of lube, this position is really good for grinding your pelvis against your partner for clit stimulation, since, otherwise, skin that isn't super hydrated can make friction unpleasant. Also try leaning back and holding on to your partner's legs, or leaning forward to hold on to their shoulders. How far forward or back you lean will change the angle and the different spots you might hit to reach that clit orgasm.
Parting the Sea
This best sex position for women is a variation of reverse cowgirl—and you use your partner's leg as an accessory (fun!). Place a pillow underneath your partner's lower back, and have them bend one knee so their foot is flat on the bed. Then climb on top and straddle them in reverse cowgirl, placing one of your legs in between their and the other on the outside of the leg you're using as the post. Once you're comfortable, slide your partner inside of you and position and ride them while rubbing your clit against his thigh. Yee-haw.
Read more Sex-Position Bucket List Should Look Like This Doggy Style
Just like it sounds, doggy style is where you get on all fours, leaning on your hands or forearms, and your partner enters you from behind. Doggy style gives a tighter fit than facing positions, and it's great for G-spot stimulation. Make one small tweak to make this one of the best sex positions for women for orgasming too: Because your partner is resting against your body, it could potentially free up one or both hands so they could stimulate your clit while holding your body close. Or, balance on one arm so you can free up a hand of your own. (Hello, core workout!)
Edge of the Bed
For deep penetration and clitoral play, try this fun sex position. Lie on your back, hips at the edge of the bed, and have your partner stand and enter you from under your legs. With any penetrative sex positions where you're aiming for clit stimulation, it's helpful to make enough room for a hand or toy to stimulate the clit directly. Any position that has the receptive partner on the edge of the bed with the penetrative partner standing up is great for this.
Read more 5 Sex Positions to Give Her Multiple Orgasms Sideways Straddle
The number-one rule for clit sex is finding friction, and ups that tenfold, making it one of the best sex positions for women trying to have a clit orgasm. Have your partner lie on their back with their knees bent, then lower yourself onto them so you're straddling one of their thighs, facing away from them. You can grind up against their thigh for some great clitoral stimulation.
Now my friends what you have before your eyes is a master class in the art of mastering your woman. Unfortunately, many men do not learn the true principles of women sexuality at the outset and so, even with the best of intentions, their form is without substance. That’s a shame, because mastering her is the most effective way to bring a woman to orgasm. It can also be one of the most pleasurable acts—for both of you.
This book will make you be able to convert a woman’s movement and internal force into stimulation and stability. Worst case scenario, rubbing pussy for some time. Even with no healing or revelations or orgasms that’s bound to be a good time for both of you .
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